It's an oxymoron, moron!

“Why would out gay men want to act like straight men?”

Being in a place where homosexuality is openly accepted and seeing hunky guys strolling in the malls with full make-up on, (... uhmnnn not really full make-up, just talk about layers of foundation and shiny BB cream on their faces + fashion contact lenses) I  still  CAN'T get the idea why there are still out gay men who want to act like straight men? And why is it that when you post your photo on Fb or in any social networking sites, (as openly gay, of course and doing effeminate poses, there are still idiots who make comments like, 'Ohh you are so gay'... and errrRRr, AM I NOT? LOL.)

I DO NOT COMPREHEND THIS IDIOCY. 

 Isn’t the whole concept of straight acting a massive example of internalized homophobia? I mean if you say “I act straight” aren’t you buying into the idea that there is some definitive way in that being a homosexual changes the way that you act? 

And what does it even mean to act straight? From a cursory look at a certain website, straight acting is advertised as acting in a masculine manner. If one can assume that in a man, straight is synonymous with masculine, then does this mean that gay is synonymous with effeminate? Isn’t this one of the main ideas from which homophobia springs; that all gay men are effeminate and all straight men are masculine?????

I’m criticizing the homosexual men who think that straight acting makes them somehow socially superior and go out of their way to appear straight to anyone who they don’t want to have gay sex with. If a homosexual man is masculine then that is how he is and I can say that I am an effeminate homosexual man (mostly). If he says he is straight acting then that is not how he is, that is an act. Acting means to act, fancy that!

As far as I see it, if you want to act straight and pretend to be straight when you aren’t then why not go all the way and BE STRAIGHT. I certainly won’t miss you. Straight acting is something we’ve all done at one time or another for usually one reason: We don’t want people to know we are gay. So why are there now all these openly homosexual men saying they’re straight acting and more importantly WHY DO PEOPLE WANT STRAIGHT ACTING BOYFRIENDS?

Straight acting isn’t being masculine, it’s being homophobic. You are scared of being associated with homosexuals because of the adversity we face but you’re more than happy to take all the liberties our struggles against this adversity have brought you.

So if you do just use the term ‘straight acting’ why not pause and think about the homophobia the term implies and just say ‘masculine’?

And if you’re acting straight purely because you think that it makes you better than all of us faggots, poofs and queers then I think that maybe you should finally step out of the closet and into our world because You can’t act straight and be gay.  ---- It’s an oxymoron, moron.   ^___^     

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Good afetrnoon!

ktnxbye!

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